Be Joyful!

As Christians, we should be the most hopeful and joyful of all people on this planet because we serve a sovereign God who is still reigning on His throne. What is joy? Here is my best attempt at a definition: Joy is that deep sense of peace and confidence in the Lord in where we trust in Him no matter what our circumstances and He produces a settled delight in our hearts that rests in His sovereignty and love.

            Notice first of all that joy is deep. It is not a surface emotion like happiness that is fleeting, but a deep confidence and sense of peace in Christ alone.  Secondly, joy is not dependent upon our circumstances. We can be joyful in times of trials and sufferings and we can be joyful in times of great blessing.  Thirdly, this joy comes from the Lord where He produces this settled or satisfied or contentment in our hearts that is solely based upon His sovereign love.

            As Christians, it is an affront to the very gospel of Christ to walk around mopishly, sad, depressed, and defeated without the joy of the Lord. Psalm 42:5 says, “Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation.” Have you put your hope in this sovereign God who rules and reigns in absolute sovereignty?

Have you prayed to the Holy Spirit to produce His fruit deeply in your soul—especially joy? Can you say like Ezra in the book of Nehemiah 8:10: “And do not be grieved, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”  Is the joy of the Lord your strength?  Do you have a deep, settled contentment in your soul because our lives, our nation, this universe, are in the hands of all sufficient and sovereign Saviors?

Brothers and sister in Christ, may we be the voice and face of hope and joy in this culture? May a lost and confused and dying world look to us as those who have a deep sense of joy because we know that Christ has overcome and won the victory? Jesus has come to give us joy that is full in John 15:11: “These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.” In John 16:22, Jesus gives us an indestructible joy that cannot be taken away: “So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you.”

May we be lights shining in the dark shadows of this confused and befuddled world as we hold out the hope of Christ in the gospel of salvation?

The CREDO in Exodus 34

In Exodus 34:6–7, we find one of the most glorious truths in the entire Old Testament: “The Lord passed before Moses and proclaimed, “The Lord, the Lord, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness, keeping steadfast love for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, but who will by no means clear the guilty, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children and the children’s children, to the third and the fourth generation.”

Let’s look in detail at these attributes of God and let them sink into your soul. Read them and think about them as if you’ve never heard of these before. Imagine that this is your first time to hear about the glory of God.

The LORD is merciful. The imagery conveys the way a nursing mother shows compassion toward her helpless baby. In the same manner, our tender-hearted LORD reveals himself as a loving, gracious parent who looks with compassion upon us as weak and needy sinners. In our sin, we have nothing to offer God, so he condescends to our utter spiritual bankruptcy and meets us at our point of desperation.

The LORD is gracious. God as the sovereign King bends down to rebels who in no way deserve his love or mercy. Overwhelmed by our sin, we cry out to him for help. He doesn’t owe us anything but justice, but instead he acts liberally and graciously toward us, knowing all along we can never pay him back.

The LORD is slow to anger. God expresses extreme patience in snorting in exasperation. He does not execute immediate justice or discipline, but shows great restraint because he has a high threshold of tolerance for our disobedience. Aren’t you thankful for the endless patience of our holy God?

The LORD is abounding in steadfast love. This Hebrew word, hesed, describes God’s tenacious fidelity and resolve to maintain a relationship with sinful people. Our LORD obligates and swears upon himself that he will be faithful to his covenant and promise to love his people whom he has chosen. Hesed is the most beautiful and powerful expression of God’s unfailing love for sinners in the entire Old Testament.

The LORD abounds in faithfulness. The image implies that God holds us in his strong arms the way a parent would hold a helpless infant. God proves trustworthy as we can count on him as a firm foundation. He is immovable as our strong tower of confidence and hope.

The LORD is a forgiving God. He cancels the debt against us by wiping the slate clean. He tosses our sins and rebellious actions to the bottom of the sea. God forgives our sins as far as the east meets the west. He forgives us on account of the death of Christ on the cross.

The LORD is also a just and righteous God. Listen to this warning. God is loving, merciful, compassionate, faithful, and forgiving, but not indiscriminately. In the end, everybody doesn’t, in fact, go to heaven. If you don’t have a personal relationship with Christ whereby you have trusted him alone as Savior and Lord and have repented of your sins, you are still under God’s righteous condemnation.

I love the parental imagery that describes God as our Father. We are helpless babies who can’t offer him anything, yet God lovingly takes us in his arms, cares for us, and shows us mercy. I remember the first time I held my firstborn son. His umbilical cord was tied around his neck when he was born, so he immediately had to go to an oxygen tent for a few hours. Neither my wife nor I got to hold him directly. I reached down in the tent, and he grabbed my finger. As a concerned father, I looked down on him with compassion and tenderness, praying for him in those first few hours of his precious life. And then I got to hold him for the first time! In this beautiful moment, I understood how God treated me as his child. I realized how helpless, clueless, and powerless of a sinner I was, someone who was entirely dependent on my heavenly Father for everything. That’s just a small picture of how our great God loves us. We are imperfect parents, but we still love our children. How much more does God, the perfect parent, love his children immensely?

Think about the thoughts and feelings rushing through Moses’ heart after this intimate encounter with the LORD in the cleft of the rock. He had seen the backside glory of God and heard God’s goodness recounted to him in this credo. In light of all this, how did Moses respond to the glory of God in his midst? Exodus 34:8 says, “Moses quickly bowed his head toward the earth and worshipped.” As God revealed his powerful, unchanging, miraculous character to Moses, Moses passionately bowed in worship.

Would that be your response as well? Would you urgently and passionately bow your entire life to the great I AM who is worthy of all your worship, and glorify his name in all the earth?

True Satisfaction

One of the most basic needs of human life is to have our thirst quenched. And we live in a culture where we can get Gatorade, PowerAde, flavored water, sparkling water, Culligan water. We are in no shortage of water.

In John 4, Jesus encounters the Samaritan woman at the well in the heat of the day. In that culture of the ancient near east water was a hot commodity in those desert climates. John 4:13–14 reads, “Jesus said to her, ‘Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.’ ”

Picture in your mind a gross, stagnant mosquito infested cesspool of filth that only brings disease and impurity. That is the picture of the human heart without Christ. Our hearts are cesspools of wickedness. Our hearts are stagnant, dead, cold and sin-infested that lead to spiritual disease and impurity. We cannot fix this.

Jeremiah 2:13 states “for my people have committed two evils: they have forsaken me, the fountain of living waters, and hewed out cisterns for themselves, broken cisterns that can hold no water. So what do we need to overcome this sin? We need the satisfying gift of eternal life that only Jesus can give us.  Psalm 36:9 read, “For with you is the fountain of life; in your light do we see light. Isaiah 12:3 echoes this truth: With joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation.

What are you spending time, money, and energy on to satisfy your deepest longings?

What did this woman spend time satisfying herself with? Relationship after relationship with men and it only left her dry, parched, lonely, and ashamed. She was never truly satisfied. She was a sinner whose heart was darkened by a stagnant cesspool of wickedness. She needed the life-transforming power of the Holy Spirit to invade her heart and create living waters that alone can satisfy and give her eternal life. Only Jesus can satisfy the cravings of a sinner with His satisfying gift of eternal life.

You and I desperately need this living water of eternal life. We need to come to Jesus and receive this free gift. The prophet Isaiah gave an imagery of God as a water salesman in the ancient deserts of Israel offering the gift of water: Isaiah 55:1–2“Come, everyone who thirsts, come to the waters; and he who has no money, come, buy and eat! Come, buy wine and milk without money and without price. Why do you spend your money for that which is not bread,

and your labor for that which does not satisfy?”

Have you received this gift of eternal life? Has your dead, lifeless, stagnant corrupt heart been renewed with streams of living water welling up inside to eternal life? Are you satisfied, I mean truly satisfied, with Jesus? Does He alone quench you thirst? Does He alone give joy to your soul? Are you finding in Jesus your ultimate passion, desire, fulfillment and purpose? Turn from your sin and then turn in faith to Christ today to receive the satisfying gift of eternal life.

Jesus transformed this woman at the well from a lonely, guilty, immoral sinner who found satisfaction in men into a worshipper who encountered the great I AM—Jesus the Messiah. The great I AM Jesus stand ready to receive you today just like this woman. Would you too experience this wonderful transformation and find your ultimate satisfaction in the living waters of Christ and His salvation?

Welcome to 2020!

Happy New Year! As we begin 2020, it’s important to have a biblical perspective on our lives and future. James 4:13-16  gives us a sober reminder: “Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit”— yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes. Instead you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.” As it is, you boast in your arrogance. All such boasting is evil.”

            We see three truths emerge from this passage. First, life is really short! Making plans for the future or earning money to take care of your family is not sinful. Boasting in your own ability to determine the future is sinful. Why? Life is fragile, short, and transitory. We are not in control of our lives. Psalm 39:4–5 reads: “O Lord, make me know my end and what is the measure of my days; let me know how fleeting I am! Behold, you have made my days a few handbreadths, and my lifetime is as nothing before you. Surely all mankind stands as a mere breath!”

Because life is short, the Psalmist has a humble, reflective attitude. He wants to truly know how fleeting his life is. He wants a sober reminder of the fragility and brevity of life. When we trust in our power, wisdom, resources, and intelligence to control life, we show an arrogance that does not rely upon God.

Second, we must humbly recognize that God is absolutely sovereign over all things. “If the Lord wills. . .” Is this your attitude? Instead of saying, “I’m in control of my future and I know what’s best for my life, and I can chart my own course in 2020, and I’m going to ultimately do whatever I WANT to do!” You instead say, “If the Lord wills, I will take another breath. If the Lord wills, I will go to work tomorrow. I will go on that trip. I will get that new job. I will get that promotion. I will save that extra money. I will have that boyfriend or girlfriend.”

The Bible teaches the absolute and meticulous sovereignty of God over all things. Job 42:2 “I know that you can do all things, and that no purpose of yours can be thwarted.”  Ephesians 1:1:  “In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will.” We need to have a healthy dose of God’s absolute sovereignty over all things which leads us to worship Him in fear and awe and humility and dependence. Ecclesiastes 7:14 says, “In the day of prosperity be joyful, and in the day of adversity consider: God has made the one as well as the other, so that man may not find out anything that will be after him.”

Third, we must humbly submit our wills to His will in all things. This is how Jesus taught us to pray in the Lord’s Prayer. Matthew 6:10 reminds us, “Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.” There are two ways to live: You can live the way of prideful presumption. You try to control life. You trust in your resources and your own ability to chart the future. You live as if God is not in control and you do what you want to do according to your will. This is dangerously foolish.

Or. . .  You can live the way of submissive surrender. You can surrender your life plans to God. You can trust in His sovereignty over your life and future. You live as if God is absolutely in control and you pray for His will to be done. You seek His kingdom first.

This is joyfully freeing. Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”

“If the Lord wills. . .” Life is short! God is absolutely sovereign! We must humbly submit our wills to His sovereign will! Is this your prayer, attitude, and commitment for 2020?


Christians all over the world celebrate the birth of Christ and anticipate the Second Coming of Christ by observing Advent.  The word “advent” is Latin for “coming” or “arrival” and it has a double meaning. We worship Christ for the fact that in His first coming He came in humility as the baby born in Bethlehem—the infinite God-Man in the flesh, our Emmanuel. Yet, we also wait for the “coming” of our King a second time when He returns to earth to rule and reign in righteousness and justice and make all things new.

            Just as the Israelites in Egyptian bondage longed to be free from slavery and God provided a blood sacrifice through the Passover Lamb, we as pilgrims in this fallen world long for the day when we will be free from sin and live forever with our Lord.  Advent is a time of longing, anticipation, repentance, and hope.

As we approach Christmas, may I encourage you to “long” and “anticipate” the Second Coming of Christ as you celebrate His first coming by reflecting upon the Beatitudes in Matthew 5.  Matthew 5:1-4 states, “Seeing the crowds, he went up on the mountain, and when he sat down, his disciples came to him. And he opened his mouth and taught them, saying: ‘Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.’”

Jesus is speaking specifically to believers in the Sermon on the Mount and as the King of the Kingdom, He is pronouncing these blessings upon those who have entered through repentance and faith.  The word “Beatitude” is also Latin, and it means “blessed” or “congratulations to you”. It means that those who have been saved by God’s sovereign grace through salvation in Christ have every spiritual blessing as adopted children in His family.  These are not natural personality traits, but supernatural attributes given to us by the Holy Spirit at conversion.

In the first Beatitude, Jesus blesses us by showing us what it means to be spiritually bankrupt. Being poor in spirit means that we have this overwhelming sense of our nothingness before Him and that we recognize that we are helpless and hopeless without Christ. The old hymn “Rock of Ages” captures this vividly when it states, “Nothing in my hand I bring, simply to the cross I cling.”  We are spiritually impoverished in our sin and in desperate need of a Savior. And the promise from Jesus when we realize our bankruptcy is that we possess the kingdom of heaven.

In the second Beatitude, Jesus pronounces a blessing on those who mourn. Mourning means that we grieve over our own personal sin and all its ravaging affects. We express deep sorrow that we are spiritually bankrupt and that we have offended a holy God and that sin is a cosmic offense against our Creator.  When we mourn over our sin and own up to it and confess it and repent from it, the promise from Jesus is that we will be comforted. We will receive the comfort of the gospel. Comfort in knowing that our sins have been forgiven. Comfort in knowing that we have the gift of the Holy Spirit. Comfort in knowing that the power and penalty of sin have been cancelled. Comfort in knowing that we will one day see our Jesus face to face in the new heavens and new earth.  We discover that intense mourning results in incredible joy.

During this Advent season, have you experienced this acute awareness of your absolute nothingness before God by being poor in spirit? Have you mourned over your personal sin against God and sought comfort in the gospel of salvation and forgiveness of sins? As you celebrate the first coming of our Lord and wait in anticipation for His Second Coming, long for Him alone. Let these words of Jesus ring constantly in your ears this Christmas season: Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28–30)

Sinning is…Fun??

The writer of Hebrews describes the active faith of Moses who refused to rush headlong into the bountiful pleasures of Egypt. Hebrews 11:24–25 states, “By faith Moses, when he was grown up, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter, choosing rather to be mistreated with the people of God than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin.” The word for “enjoy” in the original language means “to cling tightly.” Moses did not want to hold on tightly to the fleeting pleasures of sin although he had every amusement at his disposal. As a member of the royal court of Pharaoh, he could have had all the women, money, food, and delicacies his heart desired. He had every pleasure imaginable at his fingertips. But instead of buying into the deceitfulness of sin, Moses understood that the comfort it offered was only fleeting.

This passage tells us that sin is pleasurable. We would not sin if we did not think it brought us pleasure. Sin feels good. Sin is fun. Sin promises excitement and allures us with the prospect of enjoyment. But these promises are empty. These pleasures of sin are fleeting. They are temporary. They only last for a season. Sin is so deceitful because it tricks us into believing that disobedience is fun. If we are honest with ourselves, we know all too well that sin can be fun. We happily rush into sin because we believe that we will experience ultimate pleasure at that moment. But what does iniquity reap in the end? We experience the crash and burn of this deception when the fleeting pleasure passes. Paul reminds us in Galatians 6:7–8: “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.” Paul warns us not to fall into faulty thinking that sin will bring no real consequences. We do not find this word “mocked” anywhere else in the New Testament and it means “to turn your nose up in contempt or mockery.” You can’t outsmart God and how he has governed the universe with the law of reaping and sowing. There is an unstoppable law that always remains true in agriculture. If you plant corn seeds, you will not reap strawberries. You will receive a harvest of corn. In the same way, in the spiritual realm, you will always reap what you sow. The consequences or the harvest may not be immediate, but the harvest will eventually come.

Here’s the adage: “Sow a thought, reap an act: sow an act, reap a habit; sow a habit; reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny.” This constant sowing to the flesh leads to corruption which in the original language means a rotting corpse that slowly decomposes over time. The more you sow to your flesh, the more sin gradually pollutes your life until eventually, it ends with destruction. What are some examples of sowing to the flesh? Maybe you surf the Internet and find yourself trapped in a hollow world of pornography. Perhaps you struggle with bitterness where you can’t bring yourself to forgive those who have deeply hurt you. Maybe you’re driven by success to climb the corporate ladder at all costs, which makes you irritable around your family. Perhaps it’s an insatiable need to gossip where you lie and backstab to make yourself look better. Maybe it’s a spiral into materialism, greed, and envy where your appetite for stuff has led you into major credit card debt.

We face an enemy who promises a great deal of enjoyment, but in the end, all we receive is destruction. In addition to sin deceiving us with fleeting pleasures, our adversary the devil also tries to hide the consequences of sin from us. Sin fools us into believing that there will be no real damaging consequences for our actions. We may suffer a little discomfort here or there and maybe have a guilty conscience for a while, but the payoff for the pleasures of sin far outweighs whatever consequences we might have to endure. Not only are we blind to the immediate results of sin, but we fail to see the ultimate future repercussions for giving in to this deceptive enemy.

Sin is a ruthless enemy that has resulted from Adam’s fall in the garden. Sin is insidious. It is manipulative, devious, and never rests for a moment. May we all be watchful and not fall into temptation!

The Gospel in a Nutshell

Titus 3:3–7 gives us what I call the gospel in a nutshell. In these five verses, we find some glorious gospel declarations that tell us what God has done for us in Christ and how we can be assured of his love for us. This passage succinctly summarizes your identity in the Trinity. Paul writes: “For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others and hating one another. But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.

I want to encourage you with seven gospel declarations that emerge directly from this passage of Scripture that I pray you can use to saturate your heart and soul with the good news of God’s love for you in Christ. These declarations will help strengthen you in your identity.

Gospel declaration #1: The gospel tells me of my former identity as an enslaved sinner before trusting Christ. Paul reminds us that we were once foolish, disobedient, enslaved to passions and pleasures, and engulfed in our sin. In other words, that is not our identity anymore. The gospel tells me that I have a new identity. Praise you, Jesus, that you have taken me out of the kingdom of darkness and brought me into the kingdom of light.

Gospel declaration #2: The gospel tells me that God’s awesome mercy and love have come to me personally through Jesus Christ. I’m not the source of salvation. Salvation starts in the heart of God for lost sinners, and he chooses to shower us with goodness, lovingkindness, and mercy through sending Jesus.

Gospel declaration #3: The gospel tells me that I can in no way contribute to my salvation since God saved me by His grace alone. How do you preach this to yourself? You always remind yourself that God is sovereign in your salvation and that you can’t do any good work to make God love you more or love you less. As a believer God loves you perfectly—on your best day when you’re doing everything great for Jesus and on your worst day when you fail miserably, God’s love for you is constant. It doesn’t change based upon your performance one way or the other.

Gospel declaration #4: The gospel tells me that I have been born again as a new creation in Christ. Remind yourself daily that God has washed you. God has regenerated your heart. God has caused you to be born again. You are a new creation in Christ

Gospel declaration #5: The gospel tells me that God has richly given me the indwelling Holy Spirit. We have the Holy Spirit living inside of us as the very presence of Christ. He empowers me to obey Jesus and promises to conform me to the image of God’s Son.

Gospel declaration #6: The gospel tells me that God accepts me, and I have a clean record before him. That’s what it means for God to justify you by his grace. God declares us as righteous. He wipes our record clean and gives us the record of Christ. We stand not guilty, clothed in Christ’s righteousness and not our own, and God accepts us on the basis of Christ, not our performance.

Gospel declaration #7: The gospel tells me that I have the hope of eternal life. Remind yourself daily that this is not your real home. You have a home in heaven. You will one day see Christ face to face. He has an inheritance waiting for you. He holds you in his grip and will never let you go. He will ensure that you make it to heaven. Allow the power of the gospel to affect your thinking, your affections, and your actions as you celebrate God’s amazing grace for sinners in his Son Jesus Christ.

Walking with a Limp

Genesis 32:24–32 records the account where Jacob wrestled with a mysterious man who changed his life forever. This scene takes place at the Jabbok river, which is an essential detail in this narrative because it’s the boundary to the promised land. The name Jabbok is a play on words with Jacob’s name. Do you see it? “Jacob/Jabbok!” The word “Jabbok” means “wrestling” or “twisting river.” For his entire life, Jacob was the epitome of a fierce wrestler as well. He wrestled with Esau in the womb and came out grabbing his heel. Later on, he again wrestled with Esau and cheated him twice. Jacob also wrestled with his uncle Laban and tricked him. At this wrestling river called Jabbok, Jacob is about to have the ultimate wrestling match of his life. In the solitude of darkness, this mysterious man begins wrestling him, and this struggle continues with intensity all night. Right before dawn, this man touches Jacob’s hip socket and wounds him. The word used for “touch” here means a soft touch. It wasn’t a powerful torque or a punch, but simply a touch. In other words, God gently, yet powerfully, wounds Jacob’s hip and leaves him writhing in pain! As the day breaks, this mysterious man urges Jacob to let him go, but Jacob is relentless and won’t let go until he gets blessed. This is somewhat shocking. What would we expect? We would expect Jacob to be bowled over in agony because God knocked his hip out of its socket. Wouldn’t Jacob want this man to let him go so he could nurse his wound? Instead, he grabs on more tightly and won’t let go until he’s personally blessed.

This story still carries more tension as the mystery man asks Jacob for his name. Why would he need to know Jacob’s name? Was God in need of some information? In this definitive moment of truth, Jacob would have to finally admit to the living God his real identity—his identity as a deceiver. What does the name Jacob mean? Deceiver! Heel Grabber! Jacob would have to come clean and admit that he was a wicked con man and a master manipulator. You can picture it in your mind, can’t you? Jacob is dripping with sweat, writhing in pain, breathing heavily, and then he pauses—it hits him—he comes face to face with the sinister meaning of his name. In agony, he whispers “Jacob. My name is Deceiver! Heal grabber! Sinner! Unworthy wretch!” In another powerful turn of events, God changes Jacob’s name to Israel because he fought with God and won. Only the living God has the power to change Jacob’s name and his identity.

Jacob then calls the place Peniel which means “face of God.” He has seen God face to face. He wrestled with God and wasn’t annihilated. The LORD didn’t scorch him with holy fire. The LORD didn’t obliterate him into a million pieces. In mercy, God wounded Jacob, and he came out with a limp, even though the LORD spared his life. And more importantly, his name was changed. He had a new identity, Israel, which was profoundly significant. Jacob stood on the border of the promised land as the only one who wrestled with God. This new identity as Israel would serve as a foreshadowing of the life of the nation from there on out—a people that wrestled with God. For the rest of his life, Jacob walked with a limp as a daily reminder that God had touched him, changed him, wounded him, broken him.

Does this make any sense? How does God bless Jacob? By wounding him. How does God strengthen Jacob? By humbling him. How does God transform Jacob? By wrenching his hip, breaking him, and ultimately giving him a new name. Sometimes God must wound us before he can use us. Does God desire for us to live in prideful self-sufficiency where we have life all figured out? Does God prefer that we are in charge of our lives as we walk confidently in our power? Or does God will that we would walk with a limp? That we would walk in weakness and utter dependence upon him. Does this attitude describe you? A. W. Tozer said, “It is doubtful whether God can bless a man greatly until he has hurt him deeply.” Have you been hurt deeply through enduring sufferings and trials so that God can use you mightily for his glory?

Three Enemies of Fellowship

The Pixar movie Wall-E serves as a modern-day parable of an ancient problem. This film, set in 2805, shows Earth as an abandoned planet covered in trash due to the excess and consumerism brought about by a megacorporation called “Buy-n-Large.” With no hope for restoring the earth, little trash compactor robots called Wall-Es are sent back to clean up the planet. Since the toxic environment on earth cannot sustain life, one Wall-E unit is left. He is lonely and longs for true love as his only friend is a cockroach. He ends up falling in love with E.V.E.—another robot—and they go on an adventure in a spaceship called Axiom back to where all the humans live as obese and selfish consumers. This film addresses the issues of loneliness, disconnectedness, the desire for real loving relationships, the tricky way we have to handle technology, and our consumer-driven culture of selfishness.

As believers, can we avoid having relationships with other people? Can we avoid the messy parts of living life together as the body of Christ? In a culture obsessed with technology and plagued by isolation and loneliness, how do we as God’s people handle these issues of relational disconnectedness? How does the gospel address a sincere desire for lasting friendships?

Acts 2:42–45: “And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need.”

The word fellowship, or koinonia, means to share or to have a partnership as it carries the idea of having things in common. This passage describes fellowship with two particular details: (1) breaking bread together, and (2) taking care of each other’s needs. In that ancient Jewish culture, eating a meal together signified a deep friendship and intimacy where they shared life around the table. Today, we often relegate fellowship to something that happens in a fellowship hall with a quarterly potluck. Luke also describes the early church as selling their possessions and having everything in common. The sharing of possessions was a voluntary, spontaneous act of love that was not compulsory. This fellowship was a beautiful expression of gospel generosity.

I want to address three ruthless enemies that stand against “fellowship” and which are so commonplace in our lives that we barely recognize them. These are selfishness, busyness, and complacency. Let’s face it, we are selfish people that put me at the center of the universe. We don’t even bat an eye at the fact that selfishness is a sin against God. Selfishness says, “I’m more important than everybody else; therefore, everyone else must serve me.” We end up using other people for our gains whether we know it or not.

The second enemy is busyness, where we over plan, overcommit, and overextend ourselves so that there’s no time to cultivate genuine relationships and friendships with others. Busyness says, “My life is too complicated; therefore, I will not invest in building relationships.”

The third enemy to fellowship is complacency, where you don’t want to make the effort to foster new relationships. You want to avoid the messiness of getting heavily involved in others’ lives. You may silently want deeper relationships, but you make no effort to actually grow in this area. We face an uphill battle in light of our culture and the sinfulness within our soul that fights against practicing true biblical fellowship.

Paul writes in 1 Thessalonians 2:8: “So, being affectionately desirous of you, we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you had become very dear to us.” Do you hear Paul’s affection and love for other believers? Paul was not content to share the gospel with them, and then quickly move on to the next town on his missionary agenda. Instead, he also wanted to share his life generously with them. Are you marked by selfishness, busyness, and complacency? Do you possess a deep affection for other believers shaped by the gospel of grace where you share your life generously? Are you connected to a local church where you can experience true biblical fellowship?

Colossians 2:6-7…Growing in Christ

Are you growing in Christ? Are you making progress in spiritual maturity? Paul gives us insight into what a healthy Christian looks like in Colossians 2:6-7: “Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving.”

Paul begins by reminding us that we have received Jesus as Lord.  If you are a Christian, Jesus is your Lord. You have surrendered your life to Him to lead you and to be your King. You are living under His rule as sovereign in your life. Also, Paul tells us to walk in Him. This means that we have a dynamic and living relationship with Christ where we orient our entire lives around Him. He is more than just an abstract thought or philosophy. He’s more than just something we tack on to our lives. He is more than just a free ticket to heaven.  He’s more than just a nice teacher who gives us direction in life. He’s more than just a life coach or wise guru who exists to give us our best life now.

If we claim to be a Christian: it means that we have received Jesus as our sovereign Lord to rule and reign over our lives and that we are to have a lifestyle marked by continually walking in fellowship with Him. What does that look like? What does that produce? What should be the result of walking with Jesus as our Lord?

Paul uses four metaphors or imagery from common daily life to help us understand more fully what it means to walk in intimate fellowship with Jesus. The first is that we are to be “rooted” in Jesus. This is an agricultural metaphor. It’s in a Greek tense that conveys the idea that it means we are “deeply rooted” or “well-planted” into Jesus.  We aren’t just causally connected to Him, but we have been united to him with roots that go deep. Jeremiah 17:8reads, “Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord. He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.”

Second, he uses an architectural metaphor. He says we have been “built up” in Christ. What is your foundation? What are you building your life upon? Is it Jesus or something else? If it’s anything else other than Jesus and His Word, it will eventually crumble.

Third, he uses a marketplace or business analogy. He says we have been “established” in the faith. The word “established” was used of a legal guarantee such as a title deed when there was a transfer of property. In other words, Jesus owns us because He has bought us and as a result, we hold fast to the faith. The first two metaphors relate more to how we are interconnected to Christ as a living Person, yet this word picture focuses on how we hold fast to the Word of God.

The fourth descriptor Paul uses is not so much of a metaphor but a result or the outflow. What should flow from us if we are walking with Christ, and we are rooted in Christ, and we are built deeply into Christ, and we are established in Christ? We should be overflowing with thanksgiving. We are thankful people.

Paul provides a vivid picture of a growing, maturing follower of Jesus. One who has received Christ as Lord and is continually walking in a dynamic and powerful fellowship with Jesus. One who is rooted deeply in Him. One built firmly upon the Lord. One who is established in the faith and doesn’t waver. And one who overflows with thankfulness. Does this describe you?